Welcome To Our New (Corona) World
An Abundance Of Caution.
Crisis.
Emergency.
Worst Day On Wall Street.
PANDEMIC.
These are words and phrases bombarding us from the media – everywhere we turn – and they can be nerve-wracking, to say the very least.
Like many of you, I have lived through several decades of scares like today’s Coronavirus – both authentic and highly sensationalized. Sometimes these are national or even global threats that really force you to stop and think. They may change your perspective on your business, how you work, and really, how it will all affect your family, friends and…LIFE.
The Coronavirus Emergency has produced so much mounting global anxiety that, despite our tremendous medical advances over the past century, the best thing we can do now is starting to look a lot like what our great (or great-great) grandparents did to combat The 1918 Flu Pandemic. We have a fancy term for it now, social distancing, but back then it came down to this -- keeping people at home for as long as possible until the pandemic eventually wore itself out.
So fast-forward to Monday of this week – I’m working in an office in Boston, advocating for 4.5 million+ fantastic small businesspeople on Alignable.com, as a proud, former small business owner myself.
On Tuesday, my world shifted dramatically, as Alignable's founders (quite wisely) told everyone to work from home over the next two weeks, for our own well-being. So I’m no longer taking the train into North Station in Boston, one of the busiest places on Earth, exponentially minimizing my risk of catching the Coronavirus.
Sounds like a great plan, and it is, given the world situation.
But it’s somewhat unsettling, too.
Not only do I have to confront the fact that Coronavirus is, indeed, a life-changing event for me already, but I also have more practical concerns. I need to figure out how I'll effectively work from home or other places around my rural burb that seem safe.
But, then, of course, other “life challenges” occur that start to push my resting (let’s pretend this isn’t happening) anxiety into overdrive.
Let me list just four from the past few days you might appreciate:
Construction Crews Make A Lot Of Noise
I woke up on Wednesday ready to dive into work and saw a construction
crew on the house lot right behind my back fence, literally 14 yards (I measured) from my new
workspace.
While I've been waiting 15 years for them to knock down the dilapidated house that stood there and build a new one, did they need to start digging the foundation with huge, noisy equipment on my first day working from home?
Oh, for the love of Pete!
Super Daughter Escapes College & Corona At Home
I received a worried text from my terrific daughter, a freshman at a fancy college in Ohio, telling me she needs to come home -- on Thursday.
So, before I knew it, I had to pay for an “emergency” plane ticket, so she can leave her Corona-abandoned campus and work from home remotely for the rest of the semester.
Truth be told, I am delighted to have her home and safe with me, but I also was worried about her picking up the Coronavirus on the plane. And now, as she reunites with lots of friends who are suddenly home, will she be able to stay Corona-free? God, I hope so.
Oh, Great -- Now I Have Dental Issues?
After working out her my daughter's travel arrangements, I cracked my new crown by biting into the wrong Brazil nut (which happens to be part of my third diet this year).
Then I'm left wondering if it’s safe to go into the dentist to get it fixed. Maybe they won't even be open? I haven't tackled that challenge quite yet, but I really should -- and soon.
Really Tired Of Bad Potholes
Finally, as I was rushing around looking for what's left of sanitizing agents in the stores, I encountered a pothole so deep that I rolled into my driveway with a flat tire.
Thankfully, AAA put a donut on the car and I was careful not to shake hands with the poor guy changing the tire in the middle of the night. But I did give him a really good tip, to make up for my necessary, but slightly rude, corona-enforced greeting.
Okay, so those are just a couple of the things that have added to stress of constant news alerts, Facebook rants, and Twitter tales of woe making even a relatively well-balanced, resilient professional uneasy.
And then you have the well-intentioned yet somewhat unnerving SLACK-A-THALON from a truly wonderful group of people at work weighing in about new corona news stories, people diagnosed just a town away from you, tiny tech issues you don’t know anything about, and much more. (Just FYI, Slack is an app we use to send internal company messages).
Enough Is Enough -- Time To Take Control
So, what this has led me to do, is STOP, BREATHE, AND APPROACH this emergency and the mini-crises it has unleashed in a calmer manner.
I’m tapping some great coping skills that I’ve used before, plus many suggestions other Alignable members have mentioned in posts about handling past crises and anxious times.
6 Simple Ways We Can All Cope With Coronavirus Stress
Here's my personal list of ways to cope with this uncertain time. I hope it works for you, too.
Focus On What You Can Control, Instead Of What You’re Powerless To Change
Be vigilant washing your hands and wiping down surfaces, avoiding super crowded places, and many other things we germaphobes do often on a good day.
Stop Watching The Stock Market Decline
Yes, it’s terrible what’s happening and how the stock markets are reacting, but markets go way up and way down and eventually bounce back. Talk to your financial advisor, if you have one, but he or she will likely offer similar advice.
Read Reports Like This One
Some medical professionals are trying to put the Coronavirus into its proper perspective by noting how much more contagious and deadly some more common diseases are to us.
We don’t want to be careless, but we also don’t want to have a nervous breakdown just worrying about a disease many of us might never get.
Connect With More People Online & Share Good Advice, Not Panic-Inducing News
Alignable’s Advice section has plenty of wise counsel on managing crises. Some of the advice is so grounding, it makes you feel good just reading it – like taking a long bike ride or golfing with a friend.
And our coronavirus SWAT team is working hard to get you the right information you need to navigate this strange period, minimize any damage to your business, and eventually come out ahead after the storm clouds have gone away.
In fact, many comments people are making in response to our poll are already showing how we're banding together to fight this threat.
Support Other Small Businesses!
This is more important now than ever. Either buy from small businesses online or venture down Main Street into some stores that likely don’t have huge crowds and are probably cleaner than they’ve ever been.
When the construction crews behind my fence are too loud, I go to my favorite small business, a café in a remote town near me, where I know the owner is as much of a germaphobe as I am.
In fact, Andrew and his egg-white omelet are doing more for me in alleviating my anxiety than anything else I can think of right now. And I love supporting him through this tough time, as well.
That makes both of us feel good and it strengthens our business relationship and friendship.
Count Your Blessings
When it comes right down to it, despite a lot of crazy things that happen to all of us, we are pretty lucky.
And even when times are tough, I’m sure we can all come up with five or ten aspects of our lives that we truly treasure. By focusing on the positive, uplifting aspects of life, many people believe more good things come your way.
That's likely because you’re busy looking for them, instead of focusing on negatives that can elevate anxiety, make you depressed, and generally, interfere with your evolution into the greatest person you can be.
Those are the tips that are helping me through what I’m now calling, #CoronaConfusion. But I’d love to hear about some of your struggles and what you’re doing to overcome them in the comments below.
And stay tuned for other helpful articles from us both during this strange period and after it has gone away. (You and I know that day is coming, eventually). Thanks for reading! #SmallBusinessStrong
For more inspiration, ideas, and support on how to get through the crisis and beyond, check out our Coronavirus Resource and Recovery Center.
Comments (1-10)
One topic that does not get mentioned enough when it comes to supporting the immune system, is how to strengthen ourselves from the "inside." I became a complementary health care provider because I suffered through almost 20 years of being fatigued and sick until I was not able to work or even leave the house. What I learned from the acupuncture and herbs that I was finally talked into trying, was that I needed to eat better. I learned that the body is 98 degrees (hot) inside for a reason. All the biochemical reactions that keep us alive work best when we do not cool them down. I gave up the ice water and ice tea that I always drank. Gave up the cold breakfast cereal and salads for lunch. No ice cream except during the summer when the body is already warm enough. Now I eat three hot or lightly cooked meals a day. The difference in how healthy I've remained and how much energy I have is surprising. One other factor--I loved sugary foods and sweet treats. It turns out that sugar suppresses the immune system. So I greatly reduced those foods and drinks. Again, what a difference this change has made. These changes are another example of what you do have control over. You would be surprised at how much you crave vegetables and do not want cold drinks after you make these changes. Many chronic health problems can be attributed to our bad food habits in this country. This is an important aspect to consider for staying healthy.
Thanks for the great article. I have started an online meditation group which is helping to keep myself and my circle of clients better grounded. Also doing online zoom get together with friends from different parts of the world was great and we plan on doing that regularly. One of the positives about this whole surreal situation is that it is making me much more aware of my own environment and helping me stay present.
Thank you for making this platform (Alignable), for us to connect with each other in a nice way and we really are all connected in some way and this Covid19 scary time it is also a time that despite the rough road we are all on together, it is good to reflect on all our blessings and be thankful for loved ones and each other. |But we don't need to be afraid and it is so good to be able to help each other. Even if that is by way of kind words we can share like your message (as you have shared some insight into your life with us all, it is good to know you are home safe and your daughter too). Tonight I was asked to pray and am encouraging others to pray also for that is something we can all do regardless of our faith; it is a way to say we are here asking God to hear our prayers and we are thankful for family and opportunities such as having a business and being able to breath as you mentioned - that in itself is something we many times take for granted. Have a peaceful night and God bless!
My organization is a non profit. We have cancelled programs we have had in place for a year. I am sure donations will be down and some of the things we do in the community will be limited for us until donations go back up.
But we will trust in God for donors to donate after the Coronavirus is over hopefully we will be better next quarter. We will continue to be in operation because all of the Broadcasters work remotely from home and we use technology to interview guest all around the world. We are currently accepting interviews now! https://www.wytv7.org/contact
Positive Note:
We have offered our services to a few businesses. We can help others with our broadcast and media so they can stay connected with people to avoid them paying a service fee or lock into a long contract they may not need after this is over.
We have moved our Talk-n-Learn monthly network meet-up to online so those who want to talk about their business during and after this Coronavirus pandemic. We are trying to be a resource of good and positive so people can still communicate and not be in a panic state of mind about their business.
Personal Note:
My husband and I have continued going to our dr's appointments and because so many cancellations we seem to be the only people sitting in the waiting area. We are using common sense to sanitize and not touch doors, teller machines with our fingers elevator buttons and washing our hands so much they have become course.
To see our church service today online and see the congregation pews empty was a real moment, but our Pastor preached on as if the pews were full. The Coronovirus is real and precautionary matters are good.
Our Missionary sources from Spain and Singapore have stayed in constant contact with us via internet and staying positive and helping others in their country that is highly effective.
USA will get through this and life will go back to what normal and our normal quirk will still happen. Feel free to reach out to WYV7.org.
The best thing is focus on the positive and what you can do. Instead of focusing on the "pandemic" ask yourself "what can I do to be best prepared for it." Since I'm into holistic health and wellness I have a list of natural things anyone can do to be as safe from this outbreak as possible. See: Natural Prevention and Treatment for Coronavirus.
Thanks that was nice. Home business here! Live and well. I'm usually so busy helping others that I kinda just never read the news at all...all,of a sudden I have and frankly kinda wondering how I can lead others out of this mess...thankyou for your words.. I'm on the other coast. Love the support the locals bit. Xo
Debi McKee
This article is very well written & everyone can take a deep breathe & step back and look at the big picture. All this will pass, the question is where will you be & will your business be positioned to take advantage of the rebound. The health report attached to this article is a must read as it provides a rational, fact-based perspective on a serious but exaggerated event.
Many thanks for your positive and professional message I am working on some "positive affirmations." Contact me at scottazen@gmail and I will send you some. Thanks again - we need more positive vibes,
Scott Hammaker
Good examples of choosing to have a positive attitude (after momentary grousing😊) and then adapting to changing life situations and again finding benefits in treasured relationships.
I go through my thankful list before going to sleep at night and when I awake in the morning. This helps me to combat the general feeling of anxiety created by the global community striving to cope with the novel virus COVID-19.
Movement also helps combat anxiety so I use the treadmill at the gym at least 3 times a week. Walking outside is definitely better for us but physically I can’t do that now. The treadmill is an adaptation but also one of my “gratefuls.”
Yesterday I texted a friend and when she immediately texted back I called her because I wanted to hear her voice! She said that made her feel good, too.
Now that we’re told to social distance to help keep us all physically healthy we’ll just need to put more effort into staying connected in a healthy way, because mental and emotional health are important, too.
We are a small gaming candy distributor in Las Vegas. Very dependent on convention and tourism numbers. We are taking it a day at a time Hoping to find new outlets for our items. Spending more time on line trying to reach all those people that wanted a Vegas getaway might want to have some Vegas chocolate to ease their disappointment.